In college, they did everything together; her and Sarah were roommates and Kiel lived next door.
The struggle can be all too real when two of your best friends start dating.
You may experience an "I knew it" moment, because you probably sensed something fishy going on before they made it Facebook official.
“Wow, that’s sounds like a great time–you should be happy for them! When she was able to step back and think about her true feelings–having them never get together or give it a try–she realized how rude she sounded.
” Turns out she didn’t find it as awesome as I did. This went on and on until I finally broke down and replied, “Would you rather them break up? Lilly may have felt “slighted,” but love is one the world’s biggest mysteries, and her two best friends discovered it together. More importantly, if you don’t get that, how does that make you look? And I hate to even call it a “loss.” Mannerly Nation, a proper person doesn’t want anything bad to happen to friends, like a messy break up.
Bottom line—and I know it sounds like a when they fall in love with each other. Change will always happen in relationships and, as you grow further into adulthood, that doesn’t mean your friendship should alter as a result. As I said in Tip #1, Lilly felt as if she was lost.