TEN (10) GOLDEN SECRETS OF MARRIAGE: TO THOSE WHO ARE MARRIED AND THOSE PREPARING TO GET MARRIED SOON 1. Some of the enemies of marriage are: Ignorance, Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness, Adultery, Third Party Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness, Wife battery, Laziness, Divorce etc. Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. With your love, prayer and encouragement, she can improve. TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as situation may change, so, leave a room for adjustment. You may get married to her because she's slim but she becomes 100% fatter after a child. MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS PERMANENT Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. May God Give us The Grace And Wisdom To Build A Heaven on Earth Marriage. I asked, so what is the secret of your over 47 years in marriage?EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS Only God has no weakness. If you focus too much on your spouse's weakness, you can't get the best out of his/her strength. EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging one's past. Marriage is like a CAR with Gear oil, gear box, back hassles and If this parts are not properly maintained, the car will brake down somewhere along the road and exposing the occupant to unhealthy circumstances. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job. Beaming, she retorted; My son, the expectations you bring into marriage will either spell its doom or success.
You cannot get all your expectations in one person.
With time and depending on your relationship, you may get some. To cut the long story short, as too many cooks spoil the broth, she concluded on the mistakes a couple should resist at all cost in marriage: 1) Never say you have made your wife or husband somebody from a nobody. God only used you as an agent for transformation, give the glory to God.
She laughed all heart and hearty and replied; You see, this is the mistake you young ones make in marriage.
YOU DO SOMETHING FOR YOUR HUSBAND OR WIFE AND EXPECT SAME REWARD FROM HIM OR HER, THIS IS WRONG!
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